Happn FlashNote Tips: Message Before Matching Strategy 2025

FlashNote is happn's premium feature that lets you send messages before matching. This guide shows you how to use it strategically for higher response and match rates.

What is FlashNote?

Definition: A message you can send to someone you've crossed paths with, even if you haven't matched yet.

How it works:

• Send FlashNote with your like
• They receive message with your profile
• Can respond even without matching first
• Higher visibility than regular likes

Availability: Premium feature (10 FlashNotes per day with subscription)

When to Use FlashNotes

Best Scenarios

• Multiple crossed paths (3+)
• You remember the actual crossing
• Highly compatible profile
• Time-sensitive (they're traveling)
• Unique connection opportunity

When NOT to Use

• First crossing only
• Incomplete profiles
• No clear compatibility
• When generic message is all you've got

What to Write in FlashNotes

The Formula

1. Reference the crossing: "Can't believe we've crossed paths 5 times!"

2. Make a connection: "I saw you're into [interest from their profile]"

3. Ask a question: "What's your favorite [related topic]?"

Examples That Work

For multiple crossings:

"We've crossed paths 7 times near [area] - clearly the universe is trying to tell us something! I noticed you're into photography too. What do you usually shoot?"

For shared interests:

"Fellow coffee enthusiast! We've crossed paths at Bluestone a few times. Have you tried their new Ethiopian roast?"

For recognizable location:

"I think we're both regulars at [location]. Small world! I see you're into hiking - any favorite trails around here?"

What to Avoid

• "Hey" or "Hi" (waste of FlashNote)
• Too forward/sexual (creepy)
• Too long (essay-length)
• Generic compliments only
• Mentioning specific details you observed (surveillance vibe)

FlashNote Strategy by Goal

For Serious Dating

Focus on: Shared values, interests, lifestyle compatibility

Tone: Thoughtful, genuine, curious

For Casual Dating

Focus on: Fun activities, shared spots, immediate plans

Tone: Light, playful, spontaneous

For New in Town

Focus on: Local recommendations, area questions

Tone: Open, curious, friendly

Timing Your FlashNotes

Best times:

• Early evening (6-8pm)
• Weekend mornings (9am-12pm)
• Lunch hours (12-2pm)

Avoid:

• Late night (2am+ seems desperate)
• Very early morning (won't be seen)

Maximizing Response Rates

Profile Must Be Great

FlashNote drives them to your profile - ensure it's optimized first.

Be Specific

Reference something from their profile - shows you actually read it.

Ask Questions

Makes it easy to respond - give them something to answer.

Show Personality

Let your authentic self shine through - be memorable.

Following Up After FlashNote

If they respond: Continue conversation naturally, suggest meeting soon

If no response after 48 hours: Move on, don't send follow-up

If they like back without responding: It's a match! Send another message

Common FlashNote Mistakes

Mistake 1: Using on Everyone

Be selective - quality over quantity

Mistake 2: Generic Messages

Personalize every FlashNote

Mistake 3: Too Aggressive

Keep it friendly, not pushy

Mistake 4: Not Proofreading

Typos kill your chances

Conclusion

FlashNotes are powerful when used strategically. Reference crossings, show genuine interest, ask engaging questions, and you'll dramatically increase your match rate.

Key tips:

• Be selective and strategic
• Personalize every message
• Reference the crossing
• Ask engaging questions
• Time it right

Optimize Your Happn Presence

AURA ensures when you send a FlashNote, the profile they see is compelling enough to respond. Great photos + strategic FlashNotes = higher match rates.